Thanks for revealing the story! I will be in the same way in the process of splitting with one which by any traditional would fundamentally rank within top 85th or even 90th percentile of aˆ?highly desirable matesaˆ? (good, liable, financially secure, attractive, winning in a aˆ?glamour marketaˆ?, among various other good features). While he was decent (see: aˆ?socially correctaˆ?) for me on a surface amount, the guy helps it be clear together with frequent and effusive critique and judgment which he will not like whom Im, and I also keep experiencing as if he’s wanting to trim myself on to a cardboard cutout prop that he can paint over with whatever he wants us to be instead.
While we plainly hear my personal inner sound stating, aˆ?(buzzer noises) NOPE! Perhaps not this!aˆ? and am willing to walk (indeed, i did so exactly that finally trip, but he reeled me personally in), we however often question myself personally and envision, aˆ?Am i simply being ridiculous and sabotaging something to all the outward shows looks like a great thing?aˆ? Read More